Yesterday afternoon, the white-collar of a having sth new dates congress is in power sea route is held in room of an arch over a gateway of library of a stone inside 590 lane. More than 30 come from Nanjing on the west the white-collar of male and female of unit of road along the line is passed chat, do the means such as game to make friend, spot atmosphere is unusually fervent.
And what differ before is, this mobile participator is firm job mostly before long " 80 hind " , the age is the smallest only 22 years old. Sociologist thinks, the white-collar dates low age change a trend to make clear, "Marry angst disease " diffusing extensively, more and more white-collars realize with its marriage of sit back and wait becomes long-standing issue, still be inferior to preparing early against a rainy day.
Date the spot:
Arrive from awkward cold and cheerless hot and unusual
As a result of,the likelihood is the first time meeting cause, a lot of white-collars sit cabinedly on the chair, now and then ceremony sex ground chats a few, occasion appears compare cold and cheerless. After compere announces the activity begins, the white-collar of seat of demand bearing adjacent chats each other and remember the name of the other side. Compere asks every white-collar and the person all round are embraced again later, spot atmosphere just warms up gradually.
Be in next in game link, 4 male white-collars are given with strokes by the requirement " the lover in the dream " about, the female that finds out to be exactly like a picture from the spot undertakes " propose confess " , "Suitor " humorous language and hyperbole movement let spot audience cannot help laughing.
Of 3 many hours date the activity enters end, but participator still does not agree to leave tardy. A few have the ground of in twos and threes of male and female of the initial purpose that make friend to sit in the courtyard of stone library door to drink tea to chat, restrict the time that meets next time surely.
Aspirations of the person that date:
Want to make a plan early to marry
In sponsor square Nanjing region community group is versed in on the west appoint the reporter on offerred participator list sees, exceed most probably the white-collar is " 80 hind " , record of formal schooling includes three-year institution of higher learning, undergraduate course, Master. The cost young lady with the least age this year 22 years old, have a job to still resent one year. She tells a reporter undemonstratively, oneself are to attend for the first time date activity, the hope can find the other in part that attributes his.
"The other place comes Shanghai work me, return old home every time, parents always urges I marry at once. " Miss Zhang that works in office of a famous accountant this year 24 years old, she tells a reporter, the pressure that comes from elder lets her must make a plan early to marry, but because the job is busy, suffer from gets acquainted with the person oen is in love with without gregarious channel. Hear of round labour appoint hold this to date after the activity, she signed up immediately. "Though lot is the day is destined, but still should rely on oneself to strive for, the hope knows a friend more in the activity, enlarge social circle, find at an early date flexibly Lang Jun. Find at an early date flexibly Lang Jun..
Sociologist: "Marry angst disease " diffuse
"Attend previously those who date is mature young person commonly, now " 80 hind " the white-collar also is joined date team, it is difficult to show white-collar marriage had become consensus of a kind of society. " sociology of institute of Shanghai politics and law fastens director Professor Zhang Youde to think, appear socially at present a flock of tall record of formal schooling, good-paying, high post but the mature young person that cannot get ideal a home to return to on marriage, namely " surplus male surplus female " . This kind of phenomenon lets more and more white-collars produce disease of a kind of angst to marrying, they think with its sit back and wait is become " surplus male surplus female " , still be inferior to hitting out actively, take the advantage of young when have age advantage and solve marital problem as early as possible, accordingly more and more young white-collars are joined " date main forces " .
"In fact, white-collar circle vacancy is to bring about one of main reasons with marry difficult. " Zhang Youde expresses.
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