“ schoolfellow old friendship, meet inaccessibly. Newly-married swallow Er, pass on close friend. ” yesterday, citizen Wang Min received the bridal invitation of a colleague again, this already was her the 5th piece when receive before 11 ” of “ this year. She says helplessly: “ compares me (receive invitation) return …… of there are plenty of such people more”
As we have learned, suffer “ is everlasting this year the registering height of day ” and 8 days of lasting false effects, upsurge of banquet of the marriage before one bye will be in 11 ” detonate “ , ” of thick as hail “ gules bomb also is made the same score to a lot of citizens increased a trouble.
What was regarded as Shuangchun to hold an intercalary month concurrently by compatriots 2009 is good year, plus the National Day this year, created “ mid-autumn history on ” of the longest holiday, partial hotel statistic shows, the choice is during 11 ” of “ the new personality of buy feast relatively the corresponding period increased last year 3 into many. The record high in the friend- - 8 days of long holidays, want to attend 9 wedding!
Thick as hail marriage banquet invitation card lets a lot of people however hard relaxed, originally happy long holiday makes them a little bitter can't bear character.
“ rejection list of present! ” yesterday, netizen “ follows a heart the QQ sign one's name that so ” renewed him, in order to express the worry of 11 ” of pair of “ . “ follows a heart so ” tells a reporter, there is dinner of a marriage before 11 ” of “ , colleague Xiaozhang is bridal on September 30, case gift 1000 yuan, there is 5 marriages dinner after 11 ” of “ , elder sister of one cousin, one watch, 3 classmates, although according to native place custom, run an at least also gets 500 yuan. He says: “ adds in smooth case gift is about 3500 yuan, calculate on the traffic expenses that make a round trip, salary bonus was built completely September went up, honest be unable to stand. ”
Follow a heart compared with “ so ” , citizen Zhang Jing is more miserable, because 3500 yuan only enough he runs of an a place where people gather for various purposes. Original, on October 2, college fellow student of Zhang Jing should hold wedding in Beijing, old schoolmate great kindness invites, still say to submit an expense account airline ticket cost, the Zhang Jing that this lets do not prepare to show up originally is very awkward. “ our university is good brother, hear other classmate wraps 1500 yuan, I also cannot be counted this less. But the most crucial it is the travelling expenses that this makes a round trip, cannot always want him to submit an expense account really? 3500 yuan do not know enough, after long holiday passes, I got tighten pants chatelaine to get along, aching ah ……”
“ follows a heart the resonance that so the trouble of ” and Zhang Jing caused a lot of young white-collars, calculate good living cost every months a few, return a room to borrow, the youth that the car borrows had caught ” of disease of dread of “ list of present stealthily.
Invitation lower part is special make clear “ cannot too little oh ”
Netizen “ muddleheaded ” received a the most awkward marriage to invitation card recently, one has the invitation that case gift asks. “ muddleheaded ” says, do not know they are intended really or innocently, there is ——“ of a small character in invitation lower part cannot too little oh ” , how to look to feel hold back is bent very?
Of course the awkward invitation of “ muddleheaded ” is the minority in minority only after all, however wedding is changing stealthily really it seems that now flavour. Citizen Liao Xiaoqing and reporter said a jest: “ works in the same place that and we are not in a floor, contact less at ordinary times, but family invitation is fond of candy to send, do not go bad. But most do those who laugh is, I encounter bridegroom bride in the hotel when, he calls me into another person unexpectedly, thanks to later other staff mediated a dispute to just leave a stage. ”
Pardonable somebody plaints- - “ does not know really is marrying still is ’” of ‘ disaster marriage. Netease once had made online investigation at this point, did to “ the wedding nowadays become the way of ‘ profitable ’ ? ” , “ of the 30.87% choices in the netizen that joins investigation is ” , think a lot of now doing bridal send invitation card more as far as possible, so that accept case gift more.
Netizen offer a idea: Include red package together as lever of a few iron
Another big trouble of everybody is the judgement of pair of red bag amount. Send much you are not willing, send little not be presentable. Say since ancient times, ceremony light friendly feelings is heavy, but the “ quantity ” that reality is give sb a present has made the important standard that measures both sides to be spent intimately.
Netizen “ lives in big China ” says, their habit is, retaliate others to must be added 100, so evening marriage earns firmly not compensate ah. “ is early it is good to know I am a bit later also. Just married at that time, classmates still are being read grind, that moment is poor, red bag is least send only 200, so much passes now, the place is more and more high-grade, so dot money returns true not be presentable. Summary —— I am deficient. ”
Taxi driver piece promising says, common friend concern is flat look for a reason not to go, but if be true friend,perhaps saying is kin, that must active, lagged behind otherwise.
Netizen “ sends the practice that sends ” to be worth to draw lessons from. He says, attend the wedding of a colleague last, we have 4 people to agree together, wrapped a great gift wrapped 2000, not only good-looking, Orphean, and we should give 500 only each, what is there against it?
Reporter hand is written down
Those who attend wedding is irritated, those who marry is irritated also
The reporter in interviewing discovers, it is actually in upsurge of this marriage banquet, the person that should send red package not only feels vexed, new people also has a lot of bewilderment actually. Because invitation sends don't bother to see me out, who sending also is a knowledge, the invitation that some people received you may be met instead not willing, but does don't bother to see me out imply the concern that tells “ of the other side us general also kind ” ?
In the final analysis, still be modern sees the problem complex. Small write down look, if both sides reads wedding a few more purely, regard as the testimony ceremony of a kind of divine marriage, so at least everybody won't have so big responsibility in the heart, that need not too care about please with do not ask, send send little trouble more.
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